Receiving is not passive, and it is not pretending you never want anything. It is the capacity to hold love, money, visibility, opportunity, and support without immediately shrinking, over-performing, or waiting for it to disappear.
What are you actually available for?
Your standard is visible in the story you repeat, the behavior you excuse, the way you speak about your desires, and the decisions you make when no one is applauding. A higher standard begins internally: I am only available for the best.
Let that be more than a phrase. Let it become the filter for what you practice, pursue, accept, and expect.